I think is important for everyone involved in a fitness journey or a journey of self discovery to be open to people who can provide some kind of guidance, or a desire to start a program, or important some wisdom to help move you along in this world.
I have a few recent mentors that I have had the good fortune to cross paths with.
- Coach Ken Balvin : Ken has been helping me with my running for years. He’s been a marathon and Tri-athlete for a long time. He has always been telling me to slow down my long runs, don’t worry about complicated running mileage formulas, don’t need to put in high mileage, run fast (sprint) every so often when you feel like it, and enjoy your runs. – Sound familiar? It sounds like something my next mentor would say.
- Mark Sission: I have never meet Mark Sission and only know him from his blog and his books but he has really opened up my mind to a way we are suppose to be living. The funny thing is, his diet ideas and his fitness ideas are not new and revolutionary. I’ve read parts of some of the studies mark always cites on his site and book and I knew about the whole fat versus carb thing. Ken Balvin had been telling how to run “Primal” for years. For some reason, I did not understand or want to follow what I believed about diet or what Ken was really saying until I read Mark’s Primal Blueprint. Mark has a great way things and and helping me to make them part of my personal life.
- My wife, Wen Xiaomin. She is really the grease and the glue that makes my wife work. At her urging, I have pursued and passed numerous IT certifications that I should have gotten years ago. She challenged me for quite a few years to lose weight, exercise more and properly, and to take control of my health. Her instance is what lead me to try and find ways to take control of my weight and health. Her mantra has always been: We need to stay healtyh for the boys. You need to better yourself so you are not an embarrassment to your sons. Her words ring loud, clear and true today. And on top of all that, she is a great Primal cook! --I’ll have some of her Primal Chinese meals posted soon.
I was judging the smaller lifters: 114, 123,132. Anyway, there was this lifter who must have been a freshman. I think he was a freshman but he looked like he was in middle-school. He had a baby face, was still short and small (but not really skinny. He just did not look really developed yet). The inspiration from this young lifter came during his second deadlift attempt. The bar was loaded at 230 lbs. He approached the bar slowly and quietly. All of the coaches from his small school gather at the back of the platform and so did a few of his fellow teammates. This usually signals that that is a big an important lift, both for this lifter personally, and for the team results. Though you’d never know it was a big lift from the expression on his face. He looked a little timid.
He walks to the platform, grabs the bar and starts his pull. The weight comes up off the floor slowly and starts moving up his knees. The bar is moving really slow. I was waiting for him to either stop the deadlift, or start hitching. But he kept pulling it and finally locked it out. I gave him the down signal and he politely put the bar back on the floor. His teammates and coaches were cheering for him loudly in the back but this young lifter just stood there, looked at me, gave a heavy sigh and wiped the sweat of his head and then turned and walked off the platform with no celebration. I chuckled and smiled.
So here’s the inspiration for me. He knew he had a tough road ahead, he approached the weight calm, focused, and then stayed patient during his task until it was completed. When he completed it, he still stayed focus and started looking to his next big challenge. Obviously he was focused on the journey of working hard and not on the end results. This is how I am trying to approach my Primal journey: Stay focused on the journey of good health over a lifetime, not just on arriving at a particular body weight or fitness marker.
I can’t believe it took me 46 years to learn it from a freshman powerlifter!